What is it ?

What is this actually, the so-called Rimming? You often hear it in connection with pornography, which is about anal sex, which is known to consist of much more than just an ass fuck. Put soberly, rimming is the stimulation of the anus of the partner with the tongue. With the tongue anal the sentence: “Fuck my ass” gets a completely new meaning … This ass licking as a sexual practice is a combination of anal sex and oral sex. It’s by no means just about licking the rosette, licking the butt hole. No, when licking buttocks the whole buttocks can be included, from the buttocks to the perineum. And the tongue anal sex may even go quite far, namely up to a real anal tongue fuck, in which one does not only lick butthole with the tongue, but really penetrates into the anus. So it’s no wonder that the origin of the word rimming isn’t quite clear – it could come from “rim” in English, but also from “to ream”, so extend … Somewhat more technical than the other terms, rosette lick, poloch lick, ass lick or anus lick is, by the way, the term Anilingus. This comes from the Latin, where anus means anus and lingere lick.

Popular techniques

With anilingus or rimming, anything that is fun is allowed. It is best to find out for yourself how to approach the rosette with your tongue – or into it – and in which position this happens. A very popular sex position is to sit on the partner’s face leaning back a little, just like with clitoral or vaginal face sitting, except that the rosette is stimulated with the tongue. At least for the beginning, however, a completely different sex position is probably much more pleasant and comfortable, namely the so-called doggy position on all fours. Do you remember? Also the anal intercourse is often done in Doggy Style. It is also sufficient if the receiving partner simply lies on his stomach. However, it is very practical to place a pillow under his abdomen so that his buttocks rise slightly and it is easier to penetrate the poker leg with your tongue. Just try out the position in which you can best reach your partner’s buttocks and especially his anus with your tongue. There are no limits to your imagination.

Closely related to the Anilingus is by the way the so-called “ATM” or also A2M. This is a sexual practice whose term is fully written out as ass to mouth; translated: from ass to mouth. A partner is first fucked from behind, and then the erect limb is immediately pushed into his mouth. You experience an indirect anilingus, so to speak; only with the difference that you get to taste your own butt hole. A variation of the Rimming is also the so-called anal Felching. This is what it is called when one partner licks the other’s buttocks after anal intercourse and licks up one’s own seed, which slowly drips out again.

  • In the context of group sex, a fast threesome for example, it can of course also be the sperm of another man, for example a woman from the ass crack of another licks.
  • Felching exists in the vaginal and anal forms.
  • In any case, tongue anal is a sexual practice, which provides for fantastic feelings of lust and as foreplay for anal intercourse just as suitable as afterplay or simply as a part of a passionate night, in which there are many other sex games.
  • Not only the man should limit himself to practising anilingus; it is also a nice experience for women when they see how exciting their partner finds it when they lick his butt hole or maybe even let a little tongue fuck take place anal.

Tips & Tricks

– foreplay

With anilingus, thorough anal hygiene is even more important than with most other forms of anal sex. It goes without saying that you clean your buttocks thoroughly beforehand. In case of doubt, it is also advisable to carry out an intestinal flush so that the anus is clean further inside, especially if a tongue fuck is planned anal. We will also discuss anal hygiene in a special chapter on its own. For some anal sex lovers, the fact that such cleansing does not take place is what makes rimming so attractive.

Anyone who attaches importance to safe sex and wants to reduce the risk of infection will fall back on so-called leak tissues for the tongue canal; a kind of very thin transparent film which is pushed in front of the area you want to lick – in this case the anus – and which provides a similar effect to condoms; they protect against germs penetrating from the anus into the mouth. These “oral condoms” are also called dental dams. They are often made of latex. If you like, you can also order such a lick cloth with a certain taste, similar to condoms with certain fragrances and in certain flavours.

– Communication

Communication is the be-all and end-all for good sex, and rimming is no different. Although almost all people find licking the butt hole, including tongue fucking, extremely pleasant and exciting, many people are ashamed because it is simply about the “ass”, which is considered unclean. As long as someone has the necessary inhibitions, but is basically ready for anilingus, it can be advisable to talk openly about anal hygiene and devote yourself to it together, perhaps as a kind of foreplay. In other cases, if your partner is massively resisting anything that smells like anal sex, you can also try to lick him with a butt hole and surprise him if a good opportunity arises.

The excitement that triggers the rimming is the best argument for it! But of course you have to stop immediately if your partner doesn’t want it at all.

– Recommendations

The anilingus has not only a pleasant side, but also a somewhat less pleasant side; even if it is a possibly very tingling form of unpleasantness. In the context of a BDSM education the anilingus can also be used as a “forced” ass licking (whereby in the context of sadomaso sex everything ultimately happens amicably) as a punishment.

And for a so-called toilet slave, who is responsible for cleaning the mistress after her excretions with the tongue, the tongue channel is anyway part of his regular obligations as cleaning with erotic undertone. Perhaps you would like to try it out sometime?